Membership

Annual membership is £1,995 but for the
first 200members it is just

Your membership includes:

  • 12 months membership
  • Two complimentary monthly meetups* inc. complimentary drinks and canapés
  • A calendar of additional, luxury events and experiences
  • Access to our in-house Concierge offering assistance with hotel bookings
  • Free relationship and dating one-to-one coaching
  • Membership joining pack 

*T&Cs apply

Pay Monthly

No Pressure, Just Possibilities.

Looking for something real shouldn’t come with financial stress. That’s why we let you split your subscription cost monthly.

Start Your Journey

New to Not a Date? Our monthly meetup is the perfect taster - think gorgeous venue, fascinating conversations, and zero awkward small talk. Just good vibes and even better company.

There’s no pressure from our side - if you’d like to know more about our pricing, how to become a member, or just want to come along and try us out, you’re more than welcome. We’d love to have you with us!

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FAQs about Membership

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