Membership

Annual membership is £1,995 but for the
first 200members it is just

Pay Monthly

No Pressure, Just Possibilities.

Looking for something real shouldn’t come with financial stress. That’s why we let you split your subscription cost monthly. Start connecting without the commitment (to your wallet).

Your membership includes:

  • 12 months membership to our exclusive club
  • A calendar of additional, luxury events and experiences at your disposal
  • Two complimentary monthly meetups* included 
  • Access to monthly meetups for £50, which includes drinks and canapés
  • Ability to go to events all over the UK
  • Online profile (for reference only – no swiping here!)
  • Access to our in-house Concierge offering assistance with hotel bookings
  • Complimentary invitations to additional events held by Not a Date partners
  • Ever-growing member benefits program to enhance single life
  • Weekly news update of club activities
  • Membership joining pack 

*T&Cs apply

Start Your Journey

We take connection seriously. Every member goes through a one-to-one application process to ensure they meet our standards - authentic, respectful, and genuinely ready for meaningful relationships.

Simply complete the form below and we will email you more information on how to join Not a Date right away!

FAQs about Membership

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