What makes Not a Date different?
How does the club work?
How thorough is the application and vetting process and what safeguards are in place?
What sort of people are members?
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WHERE REAL CONNECTIONS START
Tired of the dating game?
You're not alone.
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We are Not a Date...
We are just the beginning.
We offer a relaxed, no-hassle, safe way of meeting like-minded single people in a face-to-face, group environment.
An array of fabulous events on offer; monthly drinks soirees; supported one-to-one dating advice and personal service from an experienced team.
Start your journey
Our application process is serious:
We put in all the hard work so you don’t have to.
"I was over dating apps and situationships, then I tried Not a Date. Relaxed vibe, great crowd, real conversations. I even gave someone my number. Maybe dating can be fun again!"
- Julie from Birmingham -
Genuine, respectful people
Safe
environment
Unforgettable events
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We put your safety first
Dating safety is a big issue for both sexes - physical, sexual, financial and psychological. With that in mind, our club values, what we stand for, and the service we provide are all rooted in protecting you - so that you can just get on with meeting people and having fun.
Your safety is our number one priority. From our application process, our communications, right through to our events.
Our events...
Music events
Horse racing
Fashion and shopping events
Dance classes
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Food-inspired events
Supercars
Country pursuits
Wellness
Planes, trains, and yachts
Weekends away
Wine tasting
Competitive group activities
Classic cars
Sport
Cocktail making
Music events
Horse racing
Fashion and shopping events
Dance classes
Food-inspired events
Supercars
Country pursuits
Wellness
Planes, trains, and yachts
Weekends away
Wine tasting
Competitive group activities
Classic cars
Sport
Cocktail making
Straightforward Membership
We like simple here at Not a Date. We have one membership level, no hidden upgrades, just one price for all.
Membership gives you access to verified, like-minded single people at our monthly get togethers with two complimentary invitations.
Also, enjoy an array of additional events, from high action competitive activities to enjoying a hike in the peak district, there's an event to suit everyone!
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