A Little Bit About Us 

We aren’t new to this; our MD Torie Blythe-Richards has a 25-year career in the luxury experiences market that has focused on founding exclusive private members’ club The Partnership Collection, hosting events for entrepreneurial couples to socialise at. 

We have organised hundreds, if not thousands of experiences and events, from huge celebration bashes to company awards and intimate private yacht days.  If it's available in the luxury market, we’ve done it. 

Torie and her team are all about people.  Going that extra mile to make someone’s experience just perfect. 

‍Bringing people together is our thing.

It's All About You

That’s what is really important to us, YOU. At Not a Date, it's all about YOU. 

We make sure that you are taken care of and get what you need from the club (we are all different after all). Getting to know you, your likes, dislikes and icks. 

We ensure you choose the right experiences, meet like-minded people, make the right friends, and you never know, you might even meet ‘the one’! 

We weed out the time wasters, fakers and scammers so you don’t have to.  It frees you to meet authentic, respectful, trustworthy, credible people - just like you.