New to Not a Date? Our monthly meetups in one of Cheltenham's most stylish and sought-after venues, Club Ocho, are the perfect taster - think gorgeous venue, fascinating conversations, and zero awkward small talk. Just good vibes and even better company.

There’s no pressure from our side - if you’d like to know more about our pricing, how to become a member, or just want to come along and try us out, you’re more than welcome. We’d love to have you with us!

Please note: Complimentary invites are limited to one individual non-member per location.

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