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Not A Date is a brand-new social platform designed to help people meet in real life - no swiping, no awkward pressure, just good company and great conversation. And we’re launching with a proper celebration on Saturday 14th June, and you’re invited - for free.

We’re inviting Blues fans first because community matters, and you know what it means to back something from the start. Whether you come with mates or fly solo, you’ll be in good company.

This isn’t a dating night - it’s something different. Think of it as a fresh alternative to the usual apps and nights out. We're all about real people, real conversation, and real community.

What to Expect:

  • Free welcome drink on arrival
  • Drinks and nibbles all night
  • Giveaways and surprises throughout the night
  • A hand-picked central Birmingham venue (details sent with your invite)

We hope to see you there!

Don't Take Our Word For It...

"Not a Date seems to me to be the perfect solution. All the negativity of the apps, the fakeness, falseness and deception, removed by Not a Date and perfectly designed events to meet that person. Bring it on”

Imogen
from Leicester

"I tried the apps, but I do not have time to wade through the time wasters and the pictures – goodness me the pictures! Not a Date is the perfect answer. I know Mr Right is not going to knock on my door, but this way I have a social life, meet new people and may meet Mr Right. Win win!”

Anne
from Oxford

"Not all men are bad but there are certainly a few out there giving us a terrible reputation. Not a Date seems to be the reassurance we both need to meet genuine people in a relaxed safe environment. It’s a great idea!”

Mike
from Leicester

"Not a Date seems to make sense. They do all the vetting and people who go through that are clearly serious, AND the date gets arranged for me. I cannot wait!”

Pete
from Rugby